The One Conversation That Can Change Your Business
- Jennifer Alonso
- Jan 16
- 2 min read

Most people walk into networking events thinking: “How many people can I meet tonight?” They chase numbers, more conversations, more business cards, more connections.
Here’s the truth: your business doesn’t grow because of the quantity of conversations. It grows because of the one conversation that actually matters.
What Makes That Conversation Different?
It’s not about surface-level small talk or pitching your services. It’s when the conversation slows down, curiosity takes over, and both people are really present.
That’s when someone truly understands:
Who you are
What you do
Why it matters
And that’s when opportunities start showing up—long-term clients, unexpected referrals, partnerships that grow over time.
Why Volume Feels Productive, But Isn’t
Talking to 20 people in one night feels like progress. You leave with a stack of business cards, but a week later, most of those names have already faded.
Depth is different. Depth sticks. It’s in the follow-up questions, the pause to listen, the small details you remember about someone else’s business.
When you focus on one conversation, it becomes memorable. Not because it’s flashy, but because it’s genuine.
How to Make Your Conversations Matter
Ask Questions That Go Beyond Titles- “What challenge are you working on this month?” beats “What do you do?” every time.
Listen More Than You Talk- Stop thinking about your next line. Let curiosity guide you.
Follow Up Thoughtfully- Mention something specific from your conversation in your follow-up. It shows you were present, not just polite.
Connect Over Shared Goals or Values- People remember how you made them feel, not the pitch you gave.
Final Thought
Next time you walk into an event, don’t focus on how many people you can meet. Focus on who you can really connect with.
One meaningful conversation can open more doors than a hundred shallow ones.
Remember: networking isn’t a numbers game. It’s a depth game, and depth is what actually grows your business.
Join us for our Networking Morning at Leads Coffeehouse on January 28th at 8AM. Come and experience that one conversation that will change your business.
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